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Tuesday, January 13, 2015

My new perspective of love...



I no longer believed in the idea of perfect relationship like I use to but I do believe in love at first sight and soulmates. But lam  beginning to believe that very few times in your life, if you are  lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly right for you. They aren't the one because he/she is perfect, or because you are but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to still fall in love with each other.We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But ive seen n have my relationship  to begin to suspect there’s no  perfect person but for some reason their is that person That is perfect in your eyes! I seen the most beautiful movie called "Fault In Our stars you can tell hazel fell in  Love not for   Augustus looks, or his clothes, or for his fancy car, but because he sang a song only she  can hear. Hazel was thankful for the little time she spent with Augustus she said" I am thankful for our little infinity. I wouldn't trade it for the world. You gave me a forever within short numbered days, and I'm grateful. What makes this movie so different from the rest n his it touched my heart is that their is no happy ending but still so beautiful how their love was even if it was a short time.. They both dedicated their each day to each other n showed love to each other in few days more than ppl do in a life time... Now n days ppl forget what real romance is anyone can buy you things like jewelry candy  their is no love in that if you think about it the truely romantic things in life is those little things you do everyday to show you care and that you thinking of them. Is doing all you can to see them happy like holding their hand and sending a random I love you or I miss you text in the middle of the day the way when he/she passes by they  kiss you . It's the way they dedicate a song to you and putting on pause your  favorite movie just to hear how their day was. Truth is relationships are never easy no one tells its going to be hard the only way you can make a relationship work is if you work on it every single day and never give up on it ! Don't give up on a relationship because you feel it's just not going to get better  great relationships aren't great because they have no problems they are great because both people care enough about each other to find a way to make it work! Theirs a quote that says " Couples  who fight are stronger  than the once that don't it's not the fighting that makes them stronger its what takes place after the fighting it's the making up its coming to realization  that your relationship is more important than your differences it involves act of forgiveness and acceptance of ones mistake you fight and you learn something new about that person that's how it works real relationships aren't perfect and perfect relationships aren't real!"you can get mad at the person but still think how you can't live without them and that's the kind of love that lasts forever....

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