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Friday, December 31, 2010

Has your relationship changed from OMFG to WTF here's some advise?

In the start of the relationship those breathless weeks and months having fun and being interested in each other is not a problem.But many longer term couples rate their relationship from 1-10 many would say 5-6
Did they fall out of love? Lose their attraction? Nope they simply get confortable  and subconsciously default like whatever works, But theirs working to do try these ideas!! Ladies always dress up fix your self for your man/husband so when he gets home from work or if you are going out you leave him with a OMG expression ,always spoil him make him his favorite food, take baths together ,have allot of alone time and most important communication is key, always let him know if you loved what he bought you for your b-day or Christmas or Wat you dislike that he does.Guys women like to be told they are pretty no matter if they just woke up and they look like they just came out of a insane home! Take her out to dinner let her know you enjoy every minute with her, let her know you love her thank her for the sweet things she does even if they r the smallest things shell appreciate it.Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows but you have the power to make it work. Problems in relationship occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person and it shouldn't be that way then it ll never work out.When we initially fall in love, we feel we have found “the perfect person.” A tremendous excitement takes over. We project many wonderful qualities upon our partner and block out any faults. Then we feel that we, too, must be so wonderful to have a partner who is so ideal. For many there is the feeling that they have finally discovered someone who will be able to give them all the love, approval and inspiration they have sought all their lives.
We are meant to live a life of love. However, no matter how successful some are in other aspects of their lives, they wonder if it’s possible to have the same success in love. Although things may start out wonderfully in the beginning, there is always the fear that it won’t last, that difficulties will arise, feelings will start to change. Then when things alter, as they naturally must, many have the mistaken idea that the love is disappearing. . They wonder what went wrong.
Nothing went wrong. Change is natural and inevitable. It does not mean that the love has gone away. That is a mistaken idea of what love is. We simply have to know what love is, and how to keep it growing, through all the ups and down The work of love is the work of learning to accept the other person, and also to accept yourself. Love is not a feeling that stays the same all the time. Love is a verb. It grows as we face change and difficulty. Love grows through actions we take, through understanding and through developing the ability to really know who the other is and to really become their friend. A feeling that is here one minute and gone the next cannot be called love so don't confuse it. I hope these tips helped please keep reading on part 2 coming soon!!











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