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Welcome to my blog.I like writing,music,the great outdoors travel,shopping , new places,the adventure of marriage and the small pleasures of life.im just out going love to meet new people probobly the sweetest person ull ever meet!!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Is blood really thicker than water?

Is blood thicker than water this means that your "blood relatives" are more important than any other situation might occur in your life.The reason this is my title is because everyone says family is important and i agree to a certain point.I think family can be the best thing people can have and family can also be your worst nightmare.Family is always great when your small but when you start growing up making your own decisions and your mom or sister or dad don't like it then the arguments start and never end.Its funny because you'd think when your progressing in life your family will give you all the support to motivate you but the actually do the opposite.They just bring you down make you feel like shit.At this point you start questioning yourself is blood really thicker then water?I would want to think yes but the truth is the people you most love are actually the ones that always end up hurting you.In the end i think everyone needs their space and its better off to be distant.
family spend too much time finding other relatives to blame too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past and getting on with their issues.That's the simple truth.
I am not like that I am different... you could even call me unique. Unique because I am one of the few people who have morals and who have a heart that hates to see people suffer... I am different because when someone is down I help them up.Why can they just be grateful for haveing me in their life. I am not like them because I find no pleasure in hurting other people.For once i can truly see how my and other peoples families are.I can say now i don't care what anyone thinks of me or if they don't accept the choices i decide in life or if my hair isn't right or my shoes don't match my outfit i don't care all i care is that I'm me.. and I'm proud of my self even if no ones in my family may tell me it.For once I'm happy being where i wanted and secure and no one can take that from me or put me down. Iam who I am and people and family can take it one way or another... but at least I'm living honestly.This is how i define family at least mine but in the end their blood and you cant run away from that just deal with them and hoping to get back aloot of love! Because thats all i want!!