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Thursday, January 22, 2015

Cristian's Surviving Neurofibromatosis part 4

January 22,2015  Dixiana took to Cristian follow up with one of his specialist she was told he weight 78 pounds and height 4"5 he had grown  an inch and lost one pound! Dixiana's happy to say her sons hormones and growth is perfectly normal now! She was told Cristian won't have surgery for his implant until the summer the doctor said its fine for atleast 2 years but they won't wait that long to put a new one in! On January 22 cristian also had blood test and x-ray of his arm! Dixiana has to go see  Cristians other specialist in March and he may get his MRI done and his follow up with his other doctor and an eye check up to see if tumor affecting his vision! He seems to be doing so well but Dixiana's has some concerns in school wise with some behaviors of Cristian's that she will more likely help him out with follow up appt in February with Cristian's physiatrist! But Dixiana was told by his doctor Cristian  ADHD caused by NF1 and the tumor on his head mass their just taking over his brain can at times make him say things without him thinking that can lead to him being most the time impulsive! Cristian doctor said he was born with NF1 only way in any way behavior wise he will be like other kids is with help and that's why She says its important he sees a physiatrist! I cristians parent want to share 2 stories I found in the Internet of 2 kids have this condition one teenage girl expressing herself towards this condition second is parent telling her son story...
First story:I Was diagnosed with NF1 when I was about two. Before Kindergarten, I was in Special Ed for a year (I think) before going into mainstream school with extra help, speech therapy classes (which I was stubborn in). I had many, many MRIs in my life, probably a few a year, which has now waned down to one every other year or so. I'm lucky to be this healthy. I'm lucky to have the problems I have with coping. My problems are more psychological and how I look, how I talk, and how social I am. And yet still I struggle. 
 I don't need tattoos. I have spots. I love my spots. It's so different and weird. As much as NF worries me about my health, I'm not sure I'd trade it in to be “normal”. It's depressing sometimes and makes me feel like a freak when I get socially awkward, which is all the time. I'm not sure how NF will affect my future. I just know it's going to kill me someday.
Second story:In 2008, at 2 years old, our son Koda was diagnosed with NF1. He's now 4, and we are dealing with the complicated and unpredictable parts of NF. I know things could be so much worse, but who in their right minds wants their children to deal with anything that affects their health, appearance, etc?
Dixiana says 

Even after scary news Cabral family enjoys every day and happy to feel blessed that Cristian doing well our faith and hope grows everyday!  Now 7 years old, Cristian is a sweet and affectionate boy. He likes to color , sing songs and loves movies. He currently playing soccer since January 20,2015. Dixiana says I don't want people treat him in any special way but I do just ask for patience because although he may look fine act fine he is a boy with a rare condition that can strike any time an illness and even though he has gone through painful things  "also called different"he still stands looks at you full of life he is by far strongest human I know! Dixiana says I tell my son being different is like being called  limited edition  meaning  you are something people don't see often.... 



Tuesday, January 13, 2015

My new perspective of love...



I no longer believed in the idea of perfect relationship like I use to but I do believe in love at first sight and soulmates. But lam  beginning to believe that very few times in your life, if you are  lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly right for you. They aren't the one because he/she is perfect, or because you are but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to still fall in love with each other.We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But ive seen n have my relationship  to begin to suspect there’s no  perfect person but for some reason their is that person That is perfect in your eyes! I seen the most beautiful movie called "Fault In Our stars you can tell hazel fell in  Love not for   Augustus looks, or his clothes, or for his fancy car, but because he sang a song only she  can hear. Hazel was thankful for the little time she spent with Augustus she said" I am thankful for our little infinity. I wouldn't trade it for the world. You gave me a forever within short numbered days, and I'm grateful. What makes this movie so different from the rest n his it touched my heart is that their is no happy ending but still so beautiful how their love was even if it was a short time.. They both dedicated their each day to each other n showed love to each other in few days more than ppl do in a life time... Now n days ppl forget what real romance is anyone can buy you things like jewelry candy  their is no love in that if you think about it the truely romantic things in life is those little things you do everyday to show you care and that you thinking of them. Is doing all you can to see them happy like holding their hand and sending a random I love you or I miss you text in the middle of the day the way when he/she passes by they  kiss you . It's the way they dedicate a song to you and putting on pause your  favorite movie just to hear how their day was. Truth is relationships are never easy no one tells its going to be hard the only way you can make a relationship work is if you work on it every single day and never give up on it ! Don't give up on a relationship because you feel it's just not going to get better  great relationships aren't great because they have no problems they are great because both people care enough about each other to find a way to make it work! Theirs a quote that says " Couples  who fight are stronger  than the once that don't it's not the fighting that makes them stronger its what takes place after the fighting it's the making up its coming to realization  that your relationship is more important than your differences it involves act of forgiveness and acceptance of ones mistake you fight and you learn something new about that person that's how it works real relationships aren't perfect and perfect relationships aren't real!"you can get mad at the person but still think how you can't live without them and that's the kind of love that lasts forever....