Has your relationship changed from OMFG to WTF here's some advise?

In the start of the relationship those breathless weeks and months having fun and being interested in each other is not a problem.But many longer term couples rate their relationship from 1-10 many would say 5-6
Did they fall out of love? Lose their attraction? Nope they simply get confortable  and subconsciously default like whatever works, But theirs working to do try these ideas!! Ladies always dress up fix your self for your man/husband so when he gets home from work or if you are going out you leave him with a OMG expression ,always spoil him make him his favorite food, take baths together ,have allot of alone time and most important communication is key, always let him know if you loved what he bought you for your b-day or Christmas or Wat you dislike that he does.Guys women like to be told they are pretty no matter if they just woke up and they look like they just came out of a insane home! Take her out to dinner let her know you enjoy every minute with her, let her know you love her thank her for the sweet things she does even if they r the smallest things shell appreciate it.Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows but you have the power to make it work. Problems in relationship occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person and it shouldn't be that way then it ll never work out.When we initially fall in love, we feel we have found “the perfect person.” A tremendous excitement takes over. We project many wonderful qualities upon our partner and block out any faults. Then we feel that we, too, must be so wonderful to have a partner who is so ideal. For many there is the feeling that they have finally discovered someone who will be able to give them all the love, approval and inspiration they have sought all their lives.
We are meant to live a life of love. However, no matter how successful some are in other aspects of their lives, they wonder if it’s possible to have the same success in love. Although things may start out wonderfully in the beginning, there is always the fear that it won’t last, that difficulties will arise, feelings will start to change. Then when things alter, as they naturally must, many have the mistaken idea that the love is disappearing. . They wonder what went wrong.
Nothing went wrong. Change is natural and inevitable. It does not mean that the love has gone away. That is a mistaken idea of what love is. We simply have to know what love is, and how to keep it growing, through all the ups and down The work of love is the work of learning to accept the other person, and also to accept yourself. Love is not a feeling that stays the same all the time. Love is a verb. It grows as we face change and difficulty. Love grows through actions we take, through understanding and through developing the ability to really know who the other is and to really become their friend. A feeling that is here one minute and gone the next cannot be called love so don't confuse it. I hope these tips helped please keep reading on part 2 coming soon!!

How can love turn so evil?

I cant tell you Wat evil love maybe or domestic violence i can only tell you Wat it feels like.I seen it heard friends stories seen family destroy their relationships with physical abuse how sad. Domestic violence is a pattern behavior a man or women in which uses physical violence,threats,intimidation,emotional,economic abuse,control over partner,stalking,harassing.I will never understand how can someone say they love a person and yet hurt them its insane.Its crazy how a women or man can stay in a abusive relationship why do they stay I can honestly say because when you love someone with all your might and power then you try to put your whole heart and soul into making it work between you, hoping you will come out in the end together strong and happy. But in most cases no, it don't work, but  thankfully people manage  and no longer suffer at the hands of their abuser.Its like the Rhianna song just gonna stand there and watch me burn but that's alright because i love the way it hurts just gonna stand there and hear me cry but that's alright because i love the way you lie.I would like to say once he or she acts strange  start with sarcastic comments, silly little name calling , telling you no other person will  loved you or like you, telling you your family and which friends I had left all don't like you. Then you Will have no self confidence and  struggle to have any because when someone tells you you are ugly or stupid every day of your life it is hard to find that you are no other than that.Please leave before its to late and you may end up dead if they abuse you once its mostly certain that they'll do it again and again at times you will think wow they are  changing its going great and then they snap at any little thing  and its the same story repeating you eventually loose count of how many times you got hit. One thing i know their is no excuse for anyone to hurt a person not even if they are traumatized of their childhood past or they seen their parents fight allot ect... their is no excuse!!For all people who have gone through this kind of situation just want to say your a survivor you have strength believe in your self that you have the strength to move forward with your life you want to get in a stage where your past does not affect your everyday life you have choices don't blame yourself of the choice you made in the past praise yourself value yourself take any guilt off your shoulders start to achieve Wat you wanted to achieve in life move towards happiness.change that bad memory in your past in to hope for your feature.

What 'LIFE' means to me!!

Life is really hard to understand trust me i know.It is always the simple things that change your life and theirs these things that never happen when you are looking for them to happen.It's hard to accept, but you can't change the past. You can't go back and manipulate things to the way you wanted them to happen. Because life'd be meaningless and boring and just not worth living. But you can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life. Yes, you will make mistakes. And yes, you will have bad days  but as long as you let the past go, you'll have such a gorgeous and bright future ahead of you. Knowing that things were meant to happen. Knowing that each day you will learn something so that you keep growing to be a better person. Life work's in mysterious Ways and yet you have the chance to do something amazing from it. So grab hold of it.

I never regret anything that has happened to me in my life, whether it is making a bad choice, deciding to do something I shouldn't have, saying the wrong thing or not doing something i should have done...because all of these things have given me the knowledge i have today and helped make me who Am today... and that is one thing I will never regret. I just dont undertsand how people can see life has

 how many people you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. Life it's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone Else's in a way that you are not just satisfying yourself but someone else too. Also on a serious tip girls ya need to respect yourself first in order for ya to want guys or any one to respect you back.Females feel pretty and constantly hating on each other and people ya just need to stop being followers and be leaders if he smokes then she smokes too and if the females cloth is not tight guys wont like her seriously if you stop and Think its ridiculous!I know that god has a plan for each of us and that's why we suffer at times go through tough times so at the end we go through the path we were meant to and find happiness we meet people some we never See again some you wonder what happened to them? some you wonder if they ever think about you some you wish you never met but u did its all part of how life works and if people can see it peoples life would be allot better and they'll see things more in a positive way and yes we get let down by the people we love  and yes you'll eventually lose someone close to u  but take allot of pictures enjoy life laugh allot because every second your angry or upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.Life has no meaning its just a journey with a destination you decide how you want it to keep going and end so please make good choices.