The marriage life

Most the time adults think the most exiting part of a human life is to be single you go out when you want to come home when you want to no schedule no routines no rules. When you get married things change you  have another person to care for and you make a family. Theirs where things get rough in a relationship theirs no time for the couple theirs more arguing than agreeing. But because us as humans never see what we really have until we loose it is where we make mistakes. Being single can be fun but till certain time it'll get boring after awhile and no one wants to be alone no one ! The thing about marriage is its like a contract you'll never be alone and you don't only have a person to love forever you have kids that are these little creatures that tell you how much they love you for no reason they makes you drawings and tells you how much they miss you these creatures make you want to live only because you know that no one can ever raise them and treat them better than you. Having a family can be so beautiful when your apart from yours you find yourself looking at another family and thinking how is yours doing and if the way your looking at that family is the way people look at yours when your outside. In a relationship staying together its not the hard part  is actually getting along and having patience and actually communicating with each other because everyone knows the easy part is to breakup and give up. In marriage no one is perfect we all make mistakes. For a marriage to last it takes memories to make the spark last forgiveness to move on from any mistakes made and togetherness to make love last.